3-4 wks

Completed Task  Decide on a guest book. Make your own or shop online for guest books and guest book pens.
Completed Task  Send out rehearsal dinner invitations.
Completed Task Finish up your ceremony programs.
Completed Task  Have hair and makeup trial runs and finalize your wedding day beauty appointments. Don’t forget to bring your wedding veil to make sure it works with your style.
Completed Task Get the marriage license and make appointments for blood tests (if necessary). Check when the license expires.
Pick up wedding rings and check the inscriptions before you leave the store.
Completed Task  Confirm wedding-night and honeymoon reservations.
Completed Task Wrap all gifts for the wedding party and write each attendant a nice note.
Completed Task  Brides: Shop accessories to finish off your bridal look (earrings, a clutch, shoes).
Completed Task  Discuss your ceremony music with musicians and agree on final choices.
Confirm that your insurance covers your rings and gifts.
Completed Task  Finalize your ceremony. Schedule a follow-up meeting or phone call with the officiant to go over ceremony timing and details. Go over any personalized ceremony additions you want to make sure they’re okay.
Completed Task  Work on a “must-play” wedding song list (and “do-not-play song list”) for your DJ or band.
Completed Task  Call or email your wedding party to relay critical info related to rehearsal and wedding (dates, times, directions, duties).
Completed Task Finalize any special ceremony details like readings or other traditions (in writing) with your officiant.
Completed Task  If you are changing your name, work on all the paperwork to make it happen.
Completed Task  Get going on thank-you notes (it will feel great to get a batch out before the wedding).
Completed Task  Brides: Pick up your wedding dress.
Completed Task  Brides: Get your final haircut, if necessary.
Completed Task  Decide on your “something old, new, borrowed, and blue” if you want to include these customs in your wedding. Also, buy your garter!
Have your bridal portraits or boudoir photography session, if you decide to get one.
Completed Task  Work out a day-of schedule to time out all the details (who will get the bride there, where the wedding party will dress, etc).